Abahungu benshi bagira akantu ko kwihagararaho ku buryo niyo bagiye gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere baba bameze nkaho babikoze mbere. Ariko burya baba bafite ubwoba bwa hatari.
Ibibazo Abahungu Bakunze kwibaza
Ese ndibubikunde?
Ese ndibushimishe mugenzi wange?
Ese niwe koko tugomba gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina?
Ese ndibuze kuyihagurutsa? Ese ndabishobora ntanseka
Ibi ni ibibazo abahungu benshi bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina. Muby’ ukuri rero inshuro ya mbere ntabwo igenda uko umuntu aba yabitekereje, abahungu benshi bemeza ko umuhungu arangiza vuba cyane kandi ibintu bidakozwe neza.
KWITEGURA
Icyintu cya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu mugiye gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina. Uwo muntu agomba kuba agukunda kandi nawe umukunda, kugirango ibintu biramutse bigenze nabi mufashanye nta soni cyangwa kwitana bamwana. Abahungu benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina batarabyitegura kubera inshuti zabo ziba zarabikoze kandi zikabaseka ngo ntibarabikora,. Ibyo ntacyo bivuze na gato! Ntawuzi igihe agomba gutegereza. Icyo ugomba kw’itaho nuko utazicuza impamvu wabikoze nyuma yaho.
Dore ibibazo bimwe na bimwe wakwibaza:
-Mugenzi wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ese dushobora kumarana igihe kirekire?
-Hari umuntu cyangwa ikintu birimo gutuma mpubuka?
Ikindi kandi, uramutse wumvishe utabishaka cyangwa utarabyitegura neza, nta mpanvu yo guhubuka, wategereza. Kandi na mugenzi wawe ari umuntu ugukunda yabyumva akagufasha kugirango witegure.
INAMA
Kuganira ni kimwe mu bintu bituma imibonano mpuza bitsina igenda neza, mwabiganira mbere yo kubikora na nyuma kugirango mubwirane ibyagenze neza n’ibitagenze neza. Iyo mubivuganye mujya kubikora mwese mubyiteguye.
Ushobora guhagarika imibonano igihe cyose ushakiye, mwaba mwatangiye cyangwa mutaratangira, ntakibazo, upfa kuba wumva udashaka gukomeza, si ngombwa gukora ibintu kuberako bishimisha mugenzi wawe kandi wowe bitagushimisha.
Niba ugize ibibazo igitsina cyawe kikanga guhaguruka (gushyukwa) ntago biba bigoranye cyane kuko ni ibintu bishobora kubaho ku nshuro za mbere. Icyo wakora ni ukutabitekerezaho cyane ngo wumve ko isi yahagaze, kuko kubitekereza muri ubwo buryo byatuma ukomeza kunanirwa gushyukwa. Ahubwo wakwitonda ukongera ukagerageza hashize akanya cyangwa se ku munsi ukurikira. Niba mugenzi wawe mwumvikana ntakibazo yagutera, ahubwo ashobora kubigufashamo mu buryo butandukanye...
Ikintu gikomeye tugomba kwibuka ni ukwirinda, tugakoresha agakingirizo kuko idwara nka sida n’ibibazo bishobora guturuka mu mibonano mpuza bitsina ari nyinshi. Udukikingirizo tuboneka ahantu hose mu gihugu, haba mu ma kiosque cyangwa se muri za pharmacie.
Guhuza Igitsina Bwa Mbere-Ku Bahungu
Abahungu benshi bagira akantu ko kwihagararaho ku buryo niyo bagiye gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere baba bameze nkaho babikoze mbere. Ariko burya baba bafite ubwoba bwa hatari.
Ibibazo Abahungu Bakunze kwibaza
Ese ndibubikunde?
Ese ndibushimishe mugenzi wange?
Ese niwe koko tugomba gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina?
Ese ndibuze kuyihagurutsa? Ese ndabishobora ntanseka
Ibi ni ibibazo abahungu benshi bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina. Muby’ ukuri rero inshuro ya mbere ntabwo igenda uko umuntu aba yabitekereje, abahungu benshi bemeza ko umuhungu arangiza vuba cyane kandi ibintu bidakozwe neza.
KWITEGURA
Icyintu cya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu mugiye gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina. Uwo muntu agomba kuba agukunda kandi nawe umukunda, kugirango ibintu biramutse bigenze nabi mufashanye nta soni cyangwa kwitana bamwana. Abahungu benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina batarabyitegura kubera inshuti zabo ziba zarabikoze kandi zikabaseka ngo ntibarabikora,. Ibyo ntacyo bivuze na gato! Ntawuzi igihe agomba gutegereza. Icyo ugomba kw’itaho nuko utazicuza impamvu wabikoze nyuma yaho.
Dore ibibazo bimwe na bimwe wakwibaza:
-Mugenzi wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ese dushobora kumarana igihe kirekire?
-Hari umuntu cyangwa ikintu birimo gutuma mpubuka?
Ikindi kandi, uramutse wumvishe utabishaka cyangwa utarabyitegura neza, nta mpanvu yo guhubuka, wategereza. Kandi na mugenzi wawe ari umuntu ugukunda yabyumva akagufasha kugirango witegure.
INAMA
Kuganira ni kimwe mu bintu bituma imibonano mpuza bitsina igenda neza, mwabiganira mbere yo kubikora na nyuma kugirango mubwirane ibyagenze neza n’ibitagenze neza. Iyo mubivuganye mujya kubikora mwese mubyiteguye.
Ushobora guhagarika imibonano igihe cyose ushakiye, mwaba mwatangiye cyangwa mutaratangira, ntakibazo, upfa kuba wumva udashaka gukomeza, si ngombwa gukora ibintu kuberako bishimisha mugenzi wawe kandi wowe bitagushimisha.
Niba ugize ibibazo igitsina cyawe kikanga guhaguruka (gushyukwa) ntago biba bigoranye cyane kuko ni ibintu bishobora kubaho ku nshuro za mbere. Icyo wakora ni ukutabitekerezaho cyane ngo wumve ko isi yahagaze, kuko kubitekereza muri ubwo buryo byatuma ukomeza kunanirwa gushyukwa. Ahubwo wakwitonda ukongera ukagerageza hashize akanya cyangwa se ku munsi ukurikira. Niba mugenzi wawe mwumvikana ntakibazo yagutera, ahubwo ashobora kubigufashamo mu buryo butandukanye...
Ikintu gikomeye tugomba kwibuka ni ukwirinda, tugakoresha agakingirizo kuko idwara nka sida n’ibibazo bishobora guturuka mu mibonano mpuza bitsina ari nyinshi. Udukikingirizo tuboneka ahantu hose mu gihugu, haba mu ma kiosque cyangwa se muri za pharmacie.
Ibibazo Abahungu Bakunze kwibaza
Ese ndibubikunde?
Ese ndibushimishe mugenzi wange?
Ese niwe koko tugomba gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina?
Ese ndibuze kuyihagurutsa? Ese ndabishobora ntanseka
Ibi ni ibibazo abahungu benshi bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina. Muby’ ukuri rero inshuro ya mbere ntabwo igenda uko umuntu aba yabitekereje, abahungu benshi bemeza ko umuhungu arangiza vuba cyane kandi ibintu bidakozwe neza.
KWITEGURA
Icyintu cya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu mugiye gukorana imibonano mpuza bitsina. Uwo muntu agomba kuba agukunda kandi nawe umukunda, kugirango ibintu biramutse bigenze nabi mufashanye nta soni cyangwa kwitana bamwana. Abahungu benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina batarabyitegura kubera inshuti zabo ziba zarabikoze kandi zikabaseka ngo ntibarabikora,. Ibyo ntacyo bivuze na gato! Ntawuzi igihe agomba gutegereza. Icyo ugomba kw’itaho nuko utazicuza impamvu wabikoze nyuma yaho.
Dore ibibazo bimwe na bimwe wakwibaza:
-Mugenzi wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ese dushobora kumarana igihe kirekire?
-Hari umuntu cyangwa ikintu birimo gutuma mpubuka?
Ikindi kandi, uramutse wumvishe utabishaka cyangwa utarabyitegura neza, nta mpanvu yo guhubuka, wategereza. Kandi na mugenzi wawe ari umuntu ugukunda yabyumva akagufasha kugirango witegure.
INAMA
Kuganira ni kimwe mu bintu bituma imibonano mpuza bitsina igenda neza, mwabiganira mbere yo kubikora na nyuma kugirango mubwirane ibyagenze neza n’ibitagenze neza. Iyo mubivuganye mujya kubikora mwese mubyiteguye.
Ushobora guhagarika imibonano igihe cyose ushakiye, mwaba mwatangiye cyangwa mutaratangira, ntakibazo, upfa kuba wumva udashaka gukomeza, si ngombwa gukora ibintu kuberako bishimisha mugenzi wawe kandi wowe bitagushimisha.
Niba ugize ibibazo igitsina cyawe kikanga guhaguruka (gushyukwa) ntago biba bigoranye cyane kuko ni ibintu bishobora kubaho ku nshuro za mbere. Icyo wakora ni ukutabitekerezaho cyane ngo wumve ko isi yahagaze, kuko kubitekereza muri ubwo buryo byatuma ukomeza kunanirwa gushyukwa. Ahubwo wakwitonda ukongera ukagerageza hashize akanya cyangwa se ku munsi ukurikira. Niba mugenzi wawe mwumvikana ntakibazo yagutera, ahubwo ashobora kubigufashamo mu buryo butandukanye...
Ikintu gikomeye tugomba kwibuka ni ukwirinda, tugakoresha agakingirizo kuko idwara nka sida n’ibibazo bishobora guturuka mu mibonano mpuza bitsina ari nyinshi. Udukikingirizo tuboneka ahantu hose mu gihugu, haba mu ma kiosque cyangwa se muri za pharmacie.
Guhuza Igitsina Bwa Mbere-Ku Bakobwa
Abakobwa benshi baba bafite ubwoba ku nshuro ya mbere y'imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Ese ndabikunda?
ese ndibubabare?
ese ndibushimishe inshuti yange?
ese iyi nshuti niyo nyayo?
Ibyo ni bimwe mu bibazo abakobwa bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere. Mu byukuri rero inshuro za mbere ntabwo zibukwa neza mu buzima... abakobwa benshi bemezako inshuro za mbere ziryana ho gatoya, ko ziba zidashimishije cyane, iyo rero umaze kumenyera nibwo utangira kumva no kumenya neza ibyiza by’ imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Kwitegura guhuza Igitsina ubwa mbere
Icya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu muri kumwe. Iyo nshuti muba mugiye gukorana imibonano ugomba kuba uyikunda nayo igukunda bihagije. Abakobwa benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina bataritegura neza kubera ko inshuti zabo zibirukansa cyane cyangwa hari ibyo zibemereye nk'amafaranga n'ibindi. Niba umuhungu adashobora gutegereza igihe wunva uri witeguye kugirango mubikore mureke ntacyo aba akumariye... Nta mpamvu yo kubikora nyuma ukicuza.
Dore bimwe mu bibazo ushobora kwibaza:
-Uyu mushuti wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ubu se nyuma yaho tuzagumana cyangwa azigendera?
-Aho sinaba nihuse
Burya niwumva utabyiyumvamo uzabyihorere. Singombwa kuryamana n'umuntu uba ari bubyuke yivuga ibigwi mu nshuti ze...kandi wowe nta nyungu ubifitemo usibye kugutesha icyubahiro kandi abasore nk'abo baragwiriye
Ikintu gikomeye ugomba kumenya nuko ugomba kwirinda ingaruka wavana mu guhuza igitsina n'undi muntu. Waba wirinda gusama cyangwa wirinda indwara zituruka ku mibonano mpuza bitsina ugomba kwirinda bihagije. Ugomba gukoresha agakingirizo uko byagenda kose.
Hari abasore rero badakunze gukoresha udukingirizo, bakagusobanurira muri aya magambo:
-Wapi wana capote ituma ntashyukwa neza...
-Capote ni feke ituma umuntu atumva uburyohe....
-Ewana aho nagiye kuzigura nasanze zashize...
Ntibakakubeshye, udukingirizo tugurishwa ahantu henshi haba mu ma boutique cyangwa muri za pharmacie, nawe ushobora kukigurira ntakibazo.
Bakobwa rero nababwira iki nimwitonde mubyirukane umuco n’ubwitonzi nyarwanda.
Ese ndabikunda?
ese ndibubabare?
ese ndibushimishe inshuti yange?
ese iyi nshuti niyo nyayo?
Ibyo ni bimwe mu bibazo abakobwa bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere. Mu byukuri rero inshuro za mbere ntabwo zibukwa neza mu buzima... abakobwa benshi bemezako inshuro za mbere ziryana ho gatoya, ko ziba zidashimishije cyane, iyo rero umaze kumenyera nibwo utangira kumva no kumenya neza ibyiza by’ imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Kwitegura guhuza Igitsina ubwa mbere
Icya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu muri kumwe. Iyo nshuti muba mugiye gukorana imibonano ugomba kuba uyikunda nayo igukunda bihagije. Abakobwa benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina bataritegura neza kubera ko inshuti zabo zibirukansa cyane cyangwa hari ibyo zibemereye nk'amafaranga n'ibindi. Niba umuhungu adashobora gutegereza igihe wunva uri witeguye kugirango mubikore mureke ntacyo aba akumariye... Nta mpamvu yo kubikora nyuma ukicuza.
Dore bimwe mu bibazo ushobora kwibaza:
-Uyu mushuti wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ubu se nyuma yaho tuzagumana cyangwa azigendera?
-Aho sinaba nihuse
Burya niwumva utabyiyumvamo uzabyihorere. Singombwa kuryamana n'umuntu uba ari bubyuke yivuga ibigwi mu nshuti ze...kandi wowe nta nyungu ubifitemo usibye kugutesha icyubahiro kandi abasore nk'abo baragwiriye
Ikintu gikomeye ugomba kumenya nuko ugomba kwirinda ingaruka wavana mu guhuza igitsina n'undi muntu. Waba wirinda gusama cyangwa wirinda indwara zituruka ku mibonano mpuza bitsina ugomba kwirinda bihagije. Ugomba gukoresha agakingirizo uko byagenda kose.
Hari abasore rero badakunze gukoresha udukingirizo, bakagusobanurira muri aya magambo:
-Wapi wana capote ituma ntashyukwa neza...
-Capote ni feke ituma umuntu atumva uburyohe....
-Ewana aho nagiye kuzigura nasanze zashize...
Ntibakakubeshye, udukingirizo tugurishwa ahantu henshi haba mu ma boutique cyangwa muri za pharmacie, nawe ushobora kukigurira ntakibazo.
Bakobwa rero nababwira iki nimwitonde mubyirukane umuco n’ubwitonzi nyarwanda.
Guhuza Igitsina Bwa Mbere-Ku Bakobwa
Abakobwa benshi baba bafite ubwoba ku nshuro ya mbere y'imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Ese ndabikunda?
ese ndibubabare?
ese ndibushimishe inshuti yange?
ese iyi nshuti niyo nyayo?
Ibyo ni bimwe mu bibazo abakobwa bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere. Mu byukuri rero inshuro za mbere ntabwo zibukwa neza mu buzima... abakobwa benshi bemezako inshuro za mbere ziryana ho gatoya, ko ziba zidashimishije cyane, iyo rero umaze kumenyera nibwo utangira kumva no kumenya neza ibyiza by’ imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Kwitegura guhuza Igitsina ubwa mbere
Icya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu muri kumwe. Iyo nshuti muba mugiye gukorana imibonano ugomba kuba uyikunda nayo igukunda bihagije. Abakobwa benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina bataritegura neza kubera ko inshuti zabo zibirukansa cyane cyangwa hari ibyo zibemereye nk'amafaranga n'ibindi. Niba umuhungu adashobora gutegereza igihe wunva uri witeguye kugirango mubikore mureke ntacyo aba akumariye... Nta mpamvu yo kubikora nyuma ukicuza.
Dore bimwe mu bibazo ushobora kwibaza:
-Uyu mushuti wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ubu se nyuma yaho tuzagumana cyangwa azigendera?
-Aho sinaba nihuse
Burya niwumva utabyiyumvamo uzabyihorere. Singombwa kuryamana n'umuntu uba ari bubyuke yivuga ibigwi mu nshuti ze...kandi wowe nta nyungu ubifitemo usibye kugutesha icyubahiro kandi abasore nk'abo baragwiriye
Ikintu gikomeye ugomba kumenya nuko ugomba kwirinda ingaruka wavana mu guhuza igitsina n'undi muntu. Waba wirinda gusama cyangwa wirinda indwara zituruka ku mibonano mpuza bitsina ugomba kwirinda bihagije. Ugomba gukoresha agakingirizo uko byagenda kose.
Hari abasore rero badakunze gukoresha udukingirizo, bakagusobanurira muri aya magambo:
-Wapi wana capote ituma ntashyukwa neza...
-Capote ni feke ituma umuntu atumva uburyohe....
-Ewana aho nagiye kuzigura nasanze zashize...
Ntibakakubeshye, udukingirizo tugurishwa ahantu henshi haba mu ma boutique cyangwa muri za pharmacie, nawe ushobora kukigurira ntakibazo.
Bakobwa rero nababwira iki nimwitonde mubyirukane umuco n’ubwitonzi nyarwanda.
Ese ndabikunda?
ese ndibubabare?
ese ndibushimishe inshuti yange?
ese iyi nshuti niyo nyayo?
Ibyo ni bimwe mu bibazo abakobwa bibaza mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuza bitsina ku nshuro ya mbere. Mu byukuri rero inshuro za mbere ntabwo zibukwa neza mu buzima... abakobwa benshi bemezako inshuro za mbere ziryana ho gatoya, ko ziba zidashimishije cyane, iyo rero umaze kumenyera nibwo utangira kumva no kumenya neza ibyiza by’ imibonano mpuza bitsina.
Kwitegura guhuza Igitsina ubwa mbere
Icya mbere ugomba gutekerezaho ni umuntu muri kumwe. Iyo nshuti muba mugiye gukorana imibonano ugomba kuba uyikunda nayo igukunda bihagije. Abakobwa benshi bahubukira mu mibonano mpuza bitsina bataritegura neza kubera ko inshuti zabo zibirukansa cyane cyangwa hari ibyo zibemereye nk'amafaranga n'ibindi. Niba umuhungu adashobora gutegereza igihe wunva uri witeguye kugirango mubikore mureke ntacyo aba akumariye... Nta mpamvu yo kubikora nyuma ukicuza.
Dore bimwe mu bibazo ushobora kwibaza:
-Uyu mushuti wange mufitiye ikizere?
-Ubu se nyuma yaho tuzagumana cyangwa azigendera?
-Aho sinaba nihuse
Burya niwumva utabyiyumvamo uzabyihorere. Singombwa kuryamana n'umuntu uba ari bubyuke yivuga ibigwi mu nshuti ze...kandi wowe nta nyungu ubifitemo usibye kugutesha icyubahiro kandi abasore nk'abo baragwiriye
Ikintu gikomeye ugomba kumenya nuko ugomba kwirinda ingaruka wavana mu guhuza igitsina n'undi muntu. Waba wirinda gusama cyangwa wirinda indwara zituruka ku mibonano mpuza bitsina ugomba kwirinda bihagije. Ugomba gukoresha agakingirizo uko byagenda kose.
Hari abasore rero badakunze gukoresha udukingirizo, bakagusobanurira muri aya magambo:
-Wapi wana capote ituma ntashyukwa neza...
-Capote ni feke ituma umuntu atumva uburyohe....
-Ewana aho nagiye kuzigura nasanze zashize...
Ntibakakubeshye, udukingirizo tugurishwa ahantu henshi haba mu ma boutique cyangwa muri za pharmacie, nawe ushobora kukigurira ntakibazo.
Bakobwa rero nababwira iki nimwitonde mubyirukane umuco n’ubwitonzi nyarwanda.
IGITUBA KU MUPFUMU
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Njye nanje nasomye iyo nkuru nsanga harimo ukurenza urugero.Ariko burya abantu barutanya amageme .Jye nasweye umukobwa haheze imisi mike duhuriye ku mufumu.Jye nivuza kumeneka mutwe, nawe ga yarondera umukundanya.Ndamuganiriza ndamuherekeza, mubwira ko ndi umusore ariko ntaburyo ngira bwo kurongora.Izina rye sinkiryibuka, ariko iryanje araryibuka, na numero za telefone namuhaye ntiyazibagiye, yagumye anterefona atagira ico, ambwira.Ndateba umusi umwe ndamubwira ngo aze kundamutsa, aremera.Ndamuhendahenda ngo ashike mu cumba abanza kwanka muga munyuma aremera, ambwira ngo ninkoreshe kapote, ntamusi wahaca atanyandikiye mesaje, nanje kuko nasha igituba ntamukunda naca ndamubwira nti ingo ndi imuhira.Kuko nitwa ko ndi umurokore w` imbere akaba aja mu baphumu mpita ntinya ko bizomenyekana nca ndamubesha ko mfise uwundi ntahave ampa umukundanya.Ubu ndamuterefonye ntanyitaba , duhuriye munzira arandamutsa agaca agenda.Nibaza ko nafushije mbe nka wa muhungu yashimira umugore yarongowe nuwundi batanguye gukundana, ati warakoze ko wandinze irungu igihe twamaranye
Njye nanje nasomye iyo nkuru nsanga harimo ukurenza urugero.Ariko burya abantu barutanya amageme .Jye nasweye umukobwa haheze imisi mike duhuriye ku mufumu.Jye nivuza kumeneka mutwe, nawe ga yarondera umukundanya.Ndamuganiriza ndamuherekeza, mubwira ko ndi umusore ariko ntaburyo ngira bwo kurongora.Izina rye sinkiryibuka, ariko iryanje araryibuka, na numero za telefone namuhaye ntiyazibagiye, yagumye anterefona atagira ico, ambwira.Ndateba umusi umwe ndamubwira ngo aze kundamutsa, aremera.Ndamuhendahenda ngo ashike mu cumba abanza kwanka muga munyuma aremera, ambwira ngo ninkoreshe kapote, ntamusi wahaca atanyandikiye mesaje, nanje kuko nasha igituba ntamukunda naca ndamubwira nti ingo ndi imuhira.Kuko nitwa ko ndi umurokore w` imbere akaba aja mu baphumu mpita ntinya ko bizomenyekana nca ndamubesha ko mfise uwundi ntahave ampa umukundanya.Ubu ndamuterefonye ntanyitaba , duhuriye munzira arandamutsa agaca agenda.Nibaza ko nafushije mbe nka wa muhungu yashimira umugore yarongowe nuwundi batanguye gukundana, ati warakoze ko wandinze irungu igihe twamaranye
Ibitekerezo n'Inkuru ku Kunyaza
Ndabemeye mwa! Ntabwo nari nzi ko hari abana bavanye agahu kunnyo nka mwe! Nari narabuze ahantu najya nisomera ibintu byose, ama web site yose y'ikinya rwanda aba yirindagiza ngo abashumba, ngo abatagira ikinyabupfura, ngo abatukana n'ibindi byinshi bitagira umutwe n'ubwenge. Ibyo uvuga ku ukunyaza rero, ndakubwira ko namaze kubona ko aribyo! Ubu ndimo kurongorana n'umkobwa ukomoka muri Swaziland, abagore baho bagira soniziruta iz'abanyarwanda. Kuvuga igituba mu izina uri hamwe nawe ahita yipfuka mu amaso. Ntashobora kukwemerera kureba imboro n'amaso. Ntushobora kumukoza urutoki ku igituba, kirazira. Igituba gikozwamo imboro gusa. Nyuma yámezi atandatu turongorana, nanjye ntabwo nari narigeze kunyaza umuntu ngo mbone ko anyaye. Ariko kubera uwo ndimo kuvuga iyo ndimo kumurongora yipfukaga mu amaso akansigira igituba akicecekera, nakomeje kujya nkijyaho nkagikiniraho amayida (ubukorikori)n'amatsiko menshi yo kunyaza nagendanaga, bigeza aho nkora bimwe mubyo wavugaga hejuru, kunyaza nkoresheje imboro. Umwana yatangiye aniha gake gake, birangira ashwnyutse avuza induru ntacyo yitayeho, arekura amazi yera nk'amabyi y'ikiyoni arigorora ngira ngo arasaze. Turangije yari afite isoni ambaza ngo WHAT REALLY HAPPENED? Ngo ibiki bimbayeho, avugishwa ngo yanduje amashuka ansaba imbabazi nyinshi ngo yanyanduje, mubwira ko ntakibazo. Ubu turongoranye simunyaze ntirirema, ambwira ko nta bushake mfite! Hari n'igihe ubwe ambwira ngo "Ndumva mfite umushiha mwinshi nyaza gusa". Kunyaza rero ni ihame, umugore wanyajwe ntabicikaho. Ubu uwo muswati andinda abandi ngo ntazabanyaza. Wangu mugire umunsi mwiza kandi mukomereze aho. Iyi blog ntizahagarare!
nshaka kunyaza ariko nabuze umukobwa!!!!! ni gute nabona umukobwa unyara asa ate,niba hari umukobwa wifuza ko twahura yazandika kuri iyi blog, murakoze
nshaka kunyaza ariko nabuze umukobwa!!!!! ni gute nabona umukobwa unyara asa ate,niba hari umukobwa wifuza ko twahura yazandika kuri iyi blog, murakoze
nanjye ndabakunda cyane kuko mutanga inyigisho zitapha gutangwa nubonetse wese. Ndongeye nti courrage
ewana njyiyeho kabisa. ariko unyaza abo muri swaziland we aranyishe. ese man koko ngo buri muntu arangiriza mu rurimi rw'iwabo???
Courage
umva man mujye mushiraho na amafoto
mfite akabazo uwaba hari icyo abindushaho yamfasha. Ese birashoboka ko umukobwa uri vierge umuntu yamunyaza atarinze kumu de-vierge?
uko nasweye umukobwa mugihe gito tumenyanye
Bakunzi b'igituba, umukobwa witwa Chantal yampaye igituba mugito tumenyanye ku buryo mubuzima bwanjye ntashobora kwibagirwa uwo munyabuntu!! Twari kuri stade amahoro tureba umupira wa Rayon Sport, twicaye vraiment namutinye ntawuvugisha undi.uko bacenze nkabona aritera hejuru anshinga urwara, nza kumenya ko dufana ikipe imwe(Rayo) ubwo iba iraduhuje da! Ku mutima nti amaherezo uzampa ku muhore!! Byaje kurangira dutsinze bibiri ku busa bwa Mukura Dufata i modoka ya ville. yatahaga kimisagara nyje ntaha Gikondo. namusabye ko twagerana i gikondo ngafata ikoti kuko hari umusore nagombaga kwambarira kimisagara mubwira ko tugarukana aremera. Twagezeyo mfata ikoti ngiye gusohoka nihagararaho nti nsigira akamenyetso gato k'urukundo(kiss)yayitanze nta kuzuzaza ariko iza kumukoraho kuko nashize ubwoba nzamura muni jupe yari yambaye manura collant na gakariso nkora mugituba numva aramfashe cyane yitsa n'umutima. najombyemo urutoki nka karindwi ubwo umugezi uba uratembye. Nahiye muterura ngo nkumvishe akanyenga mpita njyana kuburiri. nkuramo byose ubundi kubera ukuntu yasaga kandi yiyubashye(yigaga KHI)sinigeze nibuka na condom. Naramusweye aranyara karahava mbona ko bibangamye ku buriri twicara hasi. Naramunyaje kuburyo mvuye mubukwe kuwundi munsi nasanze ikiziba kikiretse ngomba gukoropa!!!!!!!!!! mugihe gito twamaranye namusweye amaturu ane duhita twambukana mugeza hafi y'urugo nanjye njya mubukwe. Iminsi ikurikiyeho yaransuye tumarana iminsi itanu nkajya kukazi ngasiga aryamye nkaza ngasanga igituba cy'umwari utagira uko asa kirantegereje ngahita nswera. ndihuse iyi nkuru ni ndende nzayibagezaho ku buryo burambuye ubutaha
Hi,
Mugira ibiganiro byiza byigisha ariko rero nka amasomo yo kunyaza mwayadushyirira mu rurimi rw'icyongereza kugirango abantu batazi ikinyarwanda babyumve kuko nabo bakeneye kumenya ibyiza byacu
nanjye nshimishijwe no kuba mwaradushyiriyeho iyo line dushobora kurahuramo ubwenge gusa ibi byose muvuga nibyo kuko njye mfite experience mu kunyazwa , gusa courage ikindi nakongeraho ni kimwe : abantu bavuga ngo hari abagore cyangwa abakobwa batanyara barabeshya ahubwo uwo uba ari kunyaza ntabyo azi kuko njyewe naryamanya numuhungu bwa mbere kunyaza biramunanira yiyuha akuya pe karamurenga dutandukana andakariye ariko ubukurikiyeho namubwiye ko abikora nabi yisubiraho akurikije ibyo namubwiye ariko naranyaye agezaho ankura ku buriri kuko matelas ya double yose yari yatose anshyira hasi aranyaza itapi ndayitosa uko yakabaye gusa mu buzima numva nta kiruta ayo mapostel twakoze icyo gihe gusa na nubu arankurikirana cyane kuko yasanze ndi naturelle ku byerekeranye no kunyara yaremeye bihagije kuburyo yanyeruriye ko nta wundi arumva bavuga umeze utyo ! ariko kunyaza umuntu akanyara biterwa nuko yakwishimiye kuko njye nta wushobora kunyaza ntamwishimiye
bye mukomereze ahooooooo!!!
ewana ko nzohora vuba nakora iki
nkeneye amafoto yabakobwa bambaye ubusa
Ebana umugore wanjye yari atangiye kunanira.
Kumurongora brari byarananiye none izi nyigisho zanyu zitangiye kungirira akamaro.
Nitwa Anita ndumunyarwandakazi mba UK ariko ikibazo nfite nuko umu fiance wange yakuriye muri Europe imoco nyarwanda yose yokunyaza, gukuna kubari nibindi kimbyo ntabizi.iyo mbimubwiye araseka nge nkagirisoni nkabireka.Nasabaga inama cyangwa mukampa web agasoma.bye
nkunda igituba ariko nabonye ko kukirya ari ibya mbere, kabisa iyo ukunda umukobwa urakirya mpaka ugihaze umukobwa arataka ukagira ngo yageze mu ijuru, Aha ndashaka kubabwira ko mugomba kwitonda NTUZAKIRYE atavuye koga, agomba kubanza kucyoza bya hatari. Kandi kigomba kuba kitanuka, hari abakobwa bagira igituba kinuka hatari nta kwibeshya ngo ukirye kuko ushobora kukirukamo, ARIKO kuki hari abakobwa bagira umuhore cyangwa igituba kinuka? Muswere kandi muswerwe neza
OK URAGIKUNDA KANDI KWISI YIMANA NAWUCYANGA WANGU SO, KOMEREZAHO
Bite nagomba kushimira cane kubera iyo cite mwashizeho.jewe ndi umurundi mukwiye kuyizana Iburundi kubera mwigishe abarundi kunyaza kuko ntanumwe abizi ara abagabo canke abakobwa canke abagore ishaka kunyaza umurundikazi aratangara kuko ntavyo bazi yibaza ko usara
jye ndashaka umukobwa wo kujya anyigisha dushwerana.abaye yarakunnye kandi anyara byaba byiza yanyandikira kuri gagasosa@yahoo.fr
muraho,nitwa maurice e-mail zanjye ni maurigas2@yahoo.com ndabinginze munyoherereze ubwo buryo bwqose umugabo akoresha anyaza
mugore atakunye ashobora kunyara
Nta muti ubaho ngo umugore azane imshino mugihe atakunye, cyangwe umugore amaze kubyara yakuna akabona imishino? nabaza ga,,
Gukuna ni kare. Myr Bigirumwami yanditse ko bakuna batarajya mu mihango ya mbere. Hagati y'imyaka 8 na 13. Kunyara nabyo abagore ntibanyara bose. Kandi ntibanyara igihe cyose. Abagabo nabo kunyaza babyiga bakabimenya ariko abagore bose ntibanyara. Ni mu mutwe: aho mubikoreye, urukundo mufitanye, umuco n'ibindi. Uriya musore wasweye umu swaziland mwabonye ko yatubwiye ko iwabo bakuna ariko batanyaza. Umugabo Bizimana Nsekuye uba mu Budage aherutse kwandika igitabo Les Secrets de l'Amour a l'Africaine, asobanuramo ibyo kunyaza. Cyagise succes cyane, ku buryo ubu cyahinduwe mu gishinwa no mu kidage. Mu cyongereza kizaboneka mu mwaka utaha. Abanyankole ngo babyita gachabali. Nabo bazi kunyaza. Abarundi ntibabizi ari benshi. Abarundi/kazi ntibabizi ari benshi. Niyo mpamvu abarundikazi bikundira abagabo b'abanyarwanda. Abanyekongo ntibazi kunyaza barimya gusa nk'inka. Kandi kugira imboro nini igera kure sibyo bituma umugore aryoherwa. Haryoha sentimetero eshanu za mbere za vagin, hamwe rero na rugongo n'imishino. Ndababwira ibyo nzi kuko mfite uburambe mu kazi buhagije.
umugabo usohora vuba yashobora kunyaza?
UMUNTU YAKORA IKI KUGIRA NGO ADASOHORA VUBA??? MUMFASHE PE!!
Niba usohora vuba birakureba
Erega kuongora ni tekinike nayo nubwo arukunyaza
Muragaswera muswerwe, uretse ko hari aho mubeshya bamwe ngo basweye aba swaziland, abandi ngo baba UK, abandi baranyaje matelas iratoha na tapi barakoropa, ibyo nibyo bituma inkuru ibiha. Muvuge ibyo mwumvise n'ibyo mwabonye ntibiteye isoni nta nuwabaseka. muteze imbere umuco nyarwanda urahenda.
BK.
Hi,jye kera naranyazaga cyanee kandi nanyazaga abagore n' abakobwa ariko kuva nashaka byaranze. maze 6 ans nfite umugore ariko uko ngiye kubikora ambwira ko ababara cg tugasa n' abakirna ngo ndamukirigita. nahisemo kubireka nsigaye kucyo kumureka akarangiza gusa.
ngaho ni mungire inama kuko niyo nkomeje gusa n' ubumuhatira, arushirizaho kuma, agacika ibisebe.
Abagore bose baranyara?
Ndi Gikoko. Ariko se kunyaza koko bishimisha umugore mu mibonano cyangwa ni ukumutosa gusa no kumutesha agaciro? None se ko ko ntazi kunyaza ntabwo nashimisha madamu ku bundi buryo?
muraho, mfite incuti yanjye yangejejeho ikibazo cye nsanga kimukomereye ngo iyo ari mu mibonano we numukunzi ngo ntanarimwe aranyara ngo nyamara iyo barangije imibonano yihutira kujya kwihagarika kuko ngo aba yumva inkari zimwishe,ese imbamvu ituma atanyara niyihe bari mu mibonano?ikindi ngo umukunzi we yamubwiye ko anyara ngo ikibazo ngo we yishyiramo ko adashobora kunyara ngo niyo mpamvu bidakunda ikindi ngo umukunzi we yamubwiye ko atirekura yikomeza iyo bari mu mibonano ngo niyo mpamvu atanyara,ese ubwo ikibazo kiri kuwunyazwa cg kuwu nyaza,cg umusore ntabwo azi kunyaza,mwamfasha tugamugira inama,murakoze
umugore wange ni mwiza pe! Kandi iyo ndebye criteria zo kunyara zose mbona yazigira ariko uko mbigerageje mpita ndangiza ataranyara. ubu mbonye indi technique y gukoresha urutoki ngiye kugerageza nzababwira result
Thanks alot
Nabazaga , ese umugore iyo bamunyaje anyara iki, kandi ayo mazi aturuka mukihe gice kigize igituba
@Ellie ni byiza wana gerageze umunyaze n'urutoki uzatubwira
Inama yo Kwiga Guswera
Iki gitekerezo twakigejejweho n'umusomyi w'Igituba.org muri article nise "POSITIONS ZO GUSWERA-Nta kwibeshya!":
Banyarwanda banyarwandakazi , nejejwe nanjye no kugira icyo mvuga ku bintu byo guswera. Muzi neza ko guswera ntashuri bigira. Gusa umugore wese ajye yungurana ibitekerezo n'abandi bagabo naho umugabo yungurane ibitekerezo n'abagore b'inararibonye. Kuko nta mugabo ugira inama undi mu byo guswera ahubwo ashaka kumuswerera umugore iyo yumvise atabizi neza. Niyo mpamvu rero abagabo benshi bicecekera niyo baba bazi ubugwari bwabo. Gusa njyewe nzi ko ndi specisaliste mu guswera kuko nanjye mbyiyiziho kandi n'umugore wanjye akaba abizi neza. ushaka azanyandikire kuri rusesa@yahoo.com twungurane ibitekerzo.
Bangambiki-Urakoze Rusesa komereza aho kutwigisha
Banyarwanda banyarwandakazi , nejejwe nanjye no kugira icyo mvuga ku bintu byo guswera. Muzi neza ko guswera ntashuri bigira. Gusa umugore wese ajye yungurana ibitekerezo n'abandi bagabo naho umugabo yungurane ibitekerezo n'abagore b'inararibonye. Kuko nta mugabo ugira inama undi mu byo guswera ahubwo ashaka kumuswerera umugore iyo yumvise atabizi neza. Niyo mpamvu rero abagabo benshi bicecekera niyo baba bazi ubugwari bwabo. Gusa njyewe nzi ko ndi specisaliste mu guswera kuko nanjye mbyiyiziho kandi n'umugore wanjye akaba abizi neza. ushaka azanyandikire kuri rusesa@yahoo.com twungurane ibitekerzo.
Bangambiki-Urakoze Rusesa komereza aho kutwigisha
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